Believer, I've been out of the Jws, physically and mentally, for 35 years but I still drop in for two reasons.
First, to keep up with what they're doing. I should not really care but I live in an apartment complex of over 100 units virtually all of them JWs (and many df'd and inactive ones).
Second, this is an excellent forum for discussion on non-JW social/political issues.
As an atheist I do see that there is no respect by some and threads started by believers get hijacked. I have seen threads posted with the title asking that only believers participate but that doesn't keep the critics away.
Maybe Simon can create a special sub forum for believers only or moderators can enforce certain rules. That might attract more members like you to this site.